The way he feels, no doubt, is valid. But how does he really feel? Is he angry, depressed, frustrated, sad?
Saying "I feel [you/he/she] is/are a [insert put-down]" is not a feeling.
I can see I have struck a nerve here, and I can see you do not agree, but I didn't make this stuff up. You can ask any good family therapist about this.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-