Cas, I have been feeling the same things that you are voicing. It's like watching PAINT dry. ARGHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!
Lance, you have good feedback as always. I know that you know what this is like. When I think about your question in my situation I have to say that my XH is much less guarded with me now than he was 1 year ago (we weren't D'ed 1 year ago), XH seems much less depressed now than 1 year ago, I hadn't reconnected with his sister yet, and H/XH and I had only done 1 recreational outing. This summer we had recreational outings for about 10 weeks......When I write it down, there does seem to have been progress.
Cas, try writing down the changes like Lance suggested. I was surprised by how much had changed when I wrote my list.
