I am not o.k. with an open marriage and I don't deserve to be treated the way that she is doing, but at the same time, it's hard, at this point at least, to see what she's doing as her. She's not being herself or making any rational decisions. It's like it's not my wife, rather it's some terrible alien in her or something. I see this as a spiritual battle and I'm trying to approach it as such.
I'm not going to approach your sitch as I know how to help, but I do wish to say I'm sorry your here, I respect your Boundaries and I am happy you came here for support, [censored] happens!
