I can't read the minds of people who I have never met, and have quite a bit of trouble with the people I know. And as I've said before, it doesn't matter why she agreed to go. What matters is that she is going.
Im not trying to be dick here, or prove a point. However, when it comes to someone that I've read 800+ f'ing posts about the same old patterns, and yet "They" still don't apply the advice given, yeah I feel obligated to say something. Am I going to continue? No. Does it it apply to my post? Not really. I look at my sitch and would give half of my F'ng c#ck to be in in his sitch and I view at as how I would handle it? My answer, a lot differently, but it's not my place. I speak to John with the only knowledge I know. He needs guidance and he's been honest, but there comes a point when you need a crack upside the head. I added my POV. Not to cause controversy but to try and help.
Johns been on the right path several times, it's his choice now. I'll leave this thread from here on...800+ posts is enough.
I will say, John, I want you to save your marriage and I will STILL VIEW your posts. Good luck friend.
