Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails

This stuff isn't "control"; it's EMOTIONAL ABUSE.

Puppy


Puppy Dog Tails-that is absolutely true. There is no other phrase to call it but emotional abuse.

I have a question my 6 year old daughter came to me and said if my husband was going to come over and be with us during the hurricane. She asked me why he was not coming over. She then asked me had he called. Then she said that she knows that he is never coming home. Then she asked why isn't he coming home. Then she said can she have a picture of daddy in her room so she can look at him since he doesn't come over. Then she had this look on her face that I have never seen before and she gave me a hug. Should I let my husband know that the kids are going through this. My MIL said that I should take my husband to family court and have the judge order him visitation. She said that if he does not adhere to the visitation then he can be arrested. Is this true? What would yall do in this situation when your kids are hurting so badly? It would be different if he called and talked to them but he does not even do that. AND HE LIVES 5 MINUTES AWAY FROM ME!!!!!


Me (32) H (36)
Together (12 years)
Married (3 years)
Children (4 ages 11,9,7,6)
Bomb dropped (November 09)
Seperated (January 29, 2010)