Originally Posted By: john28
DSH,

I'll quickly admit I'm probably the worst at detaching and moving on and keeping expectations low, if at all.[/B] I know you guys get it - I love my W and want to save my M. I know you people understand me and the pain I'm in. That's why I keep coming back for more 2x4's over and over.

At least at this point I can recognize the cycle. I'm still learning. [b]It will take more time and test my resolve. I only ask you all keep with me here and keep the fire burning.


RIGHT HERE! You set yourself up at failing! You do everything you say you're going to do, but then you fall back to THIS. After you do good, you fall back to this statement and F it up! You give yourself an OUT and doom yourself to fall back to failure every time by SAYING this. STOP IT! You are smarter and better than this! Try giving YOURSELF affirmations. Seriously.