No, I 'm not bummed out anymore...more lawyer appts arranged, but that is the path we are on...
I made a huge attempt to say lots of positive things today.I just think it may be too late. H is moving forward with either leg sep or D.
I was the cat on the floor purring tonight...then H and I were intimate.He seems to regret it afterwards.
I will get dressed up Friday night and go out as you suggested.Even if I only drive to the mall or the nearest parking lot. lol.
Thanks for the help~
Take care
I'm glad you're not bummed. Keep working on you. LOOK for the positives and feel it, don't be fake. You need to find positives.
He's going to regret it, you're humbling his "Feelings". You are doing something correctly, but you HAVE TO CHANGE it up. If you want intimacy, fine. If you want your M, you need to become elusive. Cat wants a new toy! However, you have to be a better person for YOURSELF to let this catch your H's eyes.
Keep purring, but DONT let him take it so easily. He knows what you are trying to do. Again, let him taste IT, but now, pull away and MAKE him miss it. You don't have to be mean to pull this off. ITS WORKING.
