I think that when I try a tactic I don't stick with it long enough. I went dark for 3 days. ONLY 3 days. And what happened? She pursued the crap out of me. She was crying about it. And what did I do? Reverse back to old habits and let her control me.
At least at this point I can recognize the cycle. I'm still learning. It will take more time and test my resolve. I only ask you all keep with me here and keep the fire burning.
Why do you continue to STOP doing what IS working then? Seriously? You recognize your cycle, but yet you do everything the opposite of what works.
I'm not against you and I read your posts every day, but you set yourself up for failure. I know you love your W, all of us LBH's LOVE our Wives and absolutely want our M's to succeed, otherwise we wouldn't be here. Don't forget that! You have had huge, HUGE signs of it working out and some of the best advice on the board, but you continue to sabotage your own progress. DSH is right in being frustrated, you are so damn close sometimes, but then you screw it up. You really need to follow through to be successful.
Once again, I'm not against you friend. Just please take a step back and really evaluate WHAT WORKS and follow through.
