Originally Posted By: courts0818


I don’t know how to get over this bc its how I truly feel. I can’t change how I feel. And changing how I react to it…I don’t know how to do that.



I just told you how to do that. You view the "inaction" as part of your overall PLAN.

And you do it thru SELF-DISCIPLINE. Simply put, Courts, you CANNOT continue to be reactive and emotional, and have any hope of saving your marriage (much less your own emotional health). You need to DB with your HEAD, and not your EMOTIONS.

Puppy