how did you know she called concerning S4, did you let her leave a VM first? no you answered right away. I have 2 young kids, I dont answer every call, if its important and it concerns S she will leave a message. or call multiple times. You said you were controlling in the M R? sounds like you are taking your W's issues and putting them in you, you are taking all the blame in this M, when in reality it is your W that is controlling. I used to think the same thing, it was all me, no in fact my W wanted to mold me into a H who would sit, stay and lay down. No more. She has always taken this approach with me, and probably every R she has been in b4. something to think about. She needs to change or she will be another woman who cant be in a R, if its you or someone else she will treat you or them the same way, and it will get old real quick.
