4 books I have read and recommend to read through your darkness is...
Bible No More Mr Nice Guy Ways of the Superior Man Hold on to your N.U.T.s
I have been around here a while. I've heard these books recommended by some pretty good guys. I've been in discussions with some of those guys about those books. I can't say that no one I know that used those books/methods is still M.
How about 5LL? or Benefits of Staying Married, or Back from Betrayal.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.