On another note, saw H tonight at S's soccer game. No wedding ring. I'm not sure how I feel about that. Didn't bother me at first, but starting to sting a little.
You were upset a little that the H you made vows to and placed a ring on his finger took that ring off? Have you forgotten that he has, and still is cheating on you and your vows? WHY ON EARTH would you want him to desecrate the ring you put on his finger?
Think about it.
When exposing to OW's H, just give him facts. He is going to be very upset. Explain "I'm sorry I have to tell you" but you would want the same. Let him know that if he wants your contact information you are happy to share it. You're also happy to share your H's information with him.
That will bust this sucker to shreds in no time. Or, it won't. Either way, you'll have your answer fairly quickly.
If then that doesn't bust it, you move onto family and friends with that same evidence.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
