It goes without saying, but document document document your time with the kids. Every single moment of it. The court generally favors what was in place during the process.

Hang in there!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!