Thanks Lotus and Jeff,

Spending time with my kids definately took the itch off a bit. I am moving into my own place tomorrow, which will be good for me and the kids. Our first hearing is a week from tomorrow, so we will keep preparing for that "special" day. Again nothing seems to be phasing the W, she contacts me less on days where she seems busy with work, and when she is just with the kids or on weekends she seems to be reaching more. BZut I need a 2x4 when I start thinking like that, D is pending and it is what it is.