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Re: BUTTON PUSHING MID-LIFER seeking answers #2067739 09/01/10 05:20 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,549 T TRUSTING OP Member
OP TRUSTING Member T Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,549	She said he was very helpful and seemed sincere about helping her learn how to drive. Ex again texting me like crazy. He showed up at daughter's K-5 classroom for first day of school. However, the first day of school for my daughter is tomorrow. He texted me wondering where I was...... So, I know now tomorrow I will see him. Do you think he will have nerve enough to bring other woman? Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11

Re: BUTTON PUSHING MID-LIFER TRUSTING #2067955 09/01/10 10:12 PM
Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 2,588 S seeking answers Member
seeking answers Member S Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 2,588	Trusting, It's a possibility. MLCers aren't noted for their sensitivity. Any possibility of texting him and politely asking that if he planned on bringing ow, would he please not?

Re: BUTTON PUSHING MID-LIFER seeking answers #2067959 09/01/10 10:22 PM
Joined: May 2010 Posts: 1,971 Arkansas P punkin Member
punkin Member P Joined: May 2010 Posts: 1,971 Arkansas	Trusting, It probably depends on how ballsy the OW is. The one my H is with would come to my house for Christmas. Ow's are not known for their sensitivity either.

Re: BUTTON PUSHING MID-LIFER punkin #2067974 09/01/10 11:02 PM
Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 2,694 T TimeHeals Member
TimeHeals Member T Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 2,694	Quote: It probably depends on how ballsy the OW is. The one my H is with would come to my house for Christmas. That should be great fun: kissing under the missletoe, drinking egg nog, opening presents and singing "Joy to the World". M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-

Re: BUTTON PUSHING MID-LIFER TimeHeals #2068033 09/02/10 01:10 AM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,549 T TRUSTING OP Member
OP TRUSTING Member T Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,549	I will wait till tomorrow and see what he does. If he does bring her I will pretend she is not there and just concentrate on my child and her first day of school Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11

Re: BUTTON PUSHING MID-LIFER TRUSTING #2068255 09/02/10 02:22 PM
Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 4,071 F forward Member
forward Member F Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 4,071	Trusting, I can tell you that it is a hard situation, but it is not insurmountable. Ignore. If you really want to get to her, be nice, even. M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D

Re: BUTTON PUSHING MID-LIFER TRUSTING #2068257 09/02/10 02:22 PM
Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 4,071 F forward Member
forward Member F Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 4,071	Trusting, I can tell you that it is a hard situation, but it is not insurmountable. Ignore. If you really want to get to her, be nice, even. M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D

Re: BUTTON PUSHING MID-LIFER forward #2068458 09/02/10 06:04 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,549 T TRUSTING OP Member
OP TRUSTING Member T Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,549	Well OW did not show up at all... Ex arrived at daughter's classroom about 10 minutes late. For a moment I though he backed out. He came and smiled at me and took pictures of our daughter. He helped me put the school supplies away in the appropriate bins Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11

Re: BUTTON PUSHING MID-LIFER TRUSTING #2068580 09/02/10 08:02 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,549 T TRUSTING OP Member
OP TRUSTING Member T Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,549	cont... as I drove home he texted me about the experience. He seems a little afraid of me... Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11

Re: BUTTON PUSHING MID-LIFER TRUSTING #2068643 09/02/10 08:43 PM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,375 NY M MissH Member
MissH Member M Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,375 NY	Trusting, my ex stated he is afraid of me. I think it's their guilty conscience speaking. They are afraid of getting punished for being idiots. Me:35, ex: 36 Sons: 9 & 7 Bomb: July, 2006 Divorced 2009

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