Isn't it ironic that we're too busy with getting ahead in life to pay attention to the sand slipping thru our fingers? We think we're doing all the right stuff.
After being in this stuff for 7 years now I still don't have much of a clue about what defines MLC. Maybe your H is spinning or whatever. Consider that he could be out to defend his status as breadwinner, man of the family, that your success emasculates him.
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I got a big promotion at work that was very stressful and took a lot of my time. He started complaining about every single little thing.
Warning! WArning! He has a hard time dealing with being in second place.
I suggest a book called 5 Love Languages. There is a series, get the one for marriage. Figure out your H's LL and start practicing.
Stamina, hope, patience. Surround yourself with people who will support your decisions.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.