You should have told her to talk to you over the phone, why did she need to come over? I sense some of your answers sound like they are coming out of a book, or posts but she is still trying to play you. YOu did some good and some bad, dont beat yourself up I am not perfect at this either. I feel both of our W's want to keep some kind of bonding glue there, not so much to work on M but to keep us from oving on while they stay ahead of us on the moving on. my 2 cents
