I think of it like a triangle. When the mean ole W says something that upsets the poor little ow she runs to your H. It gives them something to bond over and the triangle points at you.
Take yourself out of there and say nothing to her. The only place the frustration, anger, and disappointments can be aimed at is each other.
I mean think about it. You tried to get your H help for his problems. This PO your H and then he took up with the ow, right? Ow said you ruined H's career. How ludicris is that? Why would you have been out to ruin your H's career knowing it would affect your livelihood as well? You knew done properly your H would get the help he needs to save his life, not destroy it.
Ow is desperate. She sees her dream of using your H to get what she wants slipping away. Step back from this and watch their R die its own death.
A woman like the ow in your case is out after what she can get out of a man before she wads him up and throws him away. You know this because she's done it before.
Hang in there Punkin, have patience. The wheels are in motion.
I swear, how do I keep getting dragged back into their drama? I'm eighty miles away. All I did was get up Saturday morning and turn on my computer. UGGGGGG!
No more. I'm faxing the papers the Inspector General asked me for this morning, and I'm through. With the possible exception of that little identity theft thing. On a personal basis, I feel the need to see that one through.
After that, who knows, I may change my email address and start life over as a man. LOL Then, let him try and find me.
By the sounds of it things are not as wonderful as they appear OW is so isecure that she feels the need to go after you.
Punkin Listen to everyone here they are 100% right. OW is baiting you and I know from reading that you know she is too. DO NOT answer her. it just gives her ammo to take to H to make you look bad. You know she isn't telling him she texted you first. SHE IS NOT WORTH your time.
You posted to me on Allen's shocking thread that it was good to read about something postive.
I have a very good feeling you will be posting as I did something just as positive.
I will be keeping uo with your thread. I feel this will be getting very intersesting as we see the down fall of OW. You are a spunky one and like Allen, I love that about you. JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
No, you are not out to destroy H's career, you are out to destroy her criminal butt ... I hope. I am glad you are still going to pursue the ID theft thing. These people shouldn't get away with this kind of crime ... they get brave, and end up doing worse.
As everyone says, and I am sure you're done doing it ... no contact with OW. I bet, though, it felt good to give her your piece of mind.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
It probably depends on how ballsy the OW is. The one my H is with would come to my house for Christmas. Ow's are not known for their sensitivity either.
Proving that not only are they ballsy. but not very smart either. Pun, I would not want to be there if the ow came knocking at your door!!!
