You'll get a wide variety of perspective here, but perspective is the one that it's hard to have from where you are sitting in your sitch.
No one but the people on this Board know I would take my husband back. My friends, family, even our children, say he doesn't deserve another chance, and I could do better, etc. and so on.
So, come here to vent, cry, rant, celebrate, share, question, and generally just for company with people that truly, TRULY Understand what you are going through.