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Um, this is one person's opinion, and the fact that his W is reading his material....hm...I think he is motivated to put a positive spin on the WAS's mindset.

i don't give the WAS much credit.
but i understand that it's one person's opinion. it makes me uncomfortable that posters are taking it as gospel. to me, it's misleading and giving people false hope. that's not how the majority of the cases are.

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Yeah, listen, I like a lot of what Coach says, but I think he has to be careful too. I know I wouldn't be posting the same if my H suddenly "saw the light" and was on here as well...

i just felt it was a bit misleading. you see posters say how great the advice is but can you explain why it's great?

if you love them, you have to learn to let them go and be a better person for someone else? sorry if i'm all negative about this .. i must be pms-ing. smile maybe it should be "pass the midol".

however, i did see a follow up post that said "not all WAS are good DB-ers" or something to that effect.

i prefer to stick to the advice of those who have taught me a thing or two. you and forrest have. you are trying to pry my eyes open or pull the wool away from my eyes to see a human being. but all i see is a vindictive, angry, bitter man.
(dude, being bitter and angry is going to kill you. but that's a choice you make. not me)