Well, I didn't have to deal with an A, or with a reconciliation, so I am an expert!

I think the key to being successful might be to think of the past A marriage as a "new" marriage. Don't try to think of it as a continuation of what went before, with a break in between. If you think of it as "new", then what happened in that intervening time might be less important to you, it was "before" you were married.

Will that work? I don't know! But I can see a little logic in it.

And....

(((((((((Kalni)))))))))
Going to to talking with a woman from Match on the phone tonight... she is from......... Greece!