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Thank you for all your advice TH smile I will think of something!


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I can't really get him something because it would take at least a week to get to him if I mailed it.

So I drew a thank-you card and I'm about to take a picture of it and email to him...... good idea? or silly? Or totally not what I should be doing?


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Since no one screamed "Don't do it!!" I'm going to click "Send" now.


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Since no one screamed "Don't do it!!" I'm going to click "Send" now.


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So now I'm going to wait and see until he does something and just play with a dustball in the meantime?


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Yes, do something and enjoy doing it. smile

And it's always good to count your blessings each and every day smile


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This morning he sent me an email with a cool vacation place and activities. It looked really interesting and we talked a bit and said it would be a great thing to do next summer. Then a really stupid thing happened.

I asked a very basic question regarding something we would do there and he said "Wow you want to do this and don't even know this? Really? really?". That struck me as rather rude and childish and I replied that I've never had a chance to do it before so he can make fun of me if he wants.

He didn't answer and I just felt it was such a stupid argument (if you can even call it that...) so an hour later I sent him another email and asked if it's really such a big deal that I didn't know it. After I sent it I realized that he had gone to sleep by then. So no answer there yet.

I'm just thinking, how silly was this?


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Maybe I'm mind-reading, but it just makes me wonder... is he just trying to pick a fight with me? The fights we're having are just ridiculous. They don't make sense at all. But why?

I feel like I'm missing a piece in this.


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Ris, I don't have any insight on silly fights but just wanted to say that you're not alone in looking around and going "what? really? seriously?" sometimes.


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