Thank you - it is refreshing to talk to people who know what I am going through. It really is amazing how little people know about MLC - myself included! People laugh and make fun - but when it hits the man you love, it is horrible. Like a nervous breakdown. I realize some men go out and buy big toys or start to workout and diet. But what is happening to my husband is like a disease. A cancer to his personality. My friends cringe when I say MLC. They think I am making excuses for him. But I actually care about him and worry about what is happening to him.

Thank you agian for the help - I will work on the detachment process and let you all know how it goes.


TAMF
m:41
xh:41
T: 20
M: 15
D: 16
D: 14
Bomb dropped: 7/3/10
separated: 7/15/10
H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11
divorced: 8/26/12