Originally Posted By: Coach
Phases described here to reconciling:

- get rid of negative feelings

- becomes friends again

- rekindle the romance

- recommit to the marriage


Why would you go totally dark? She is "watching" you. I 180'd my goals. Goal - get my wife to ask me out. So I did what I thought I needed to do to attract her back. Monitor the results and then try something different.



Wow. This is invaluable...