Correct, the deadline is mine, H knows nothing about this. He was gracious enough at one point to tell me that he will not ask me for a timeline (2 days later he asked, but I said I don't know, he wanted to know if he should get a month to month lease or a 6 month lease).

The deadline gives me the knowledge that I can get through this for the next 104 days, if I decide this is just too much, I can go back to PA and it gives the boys a logical break with school, or I might decide that I should stay here. It gives me a sense of peace knowing what I will be doing for the next 104 days. But this new work opportunity sure throws a twist in it, but I won't deviate from the Christmas break plan, at least I don't think I would. Never say never.

Dagny


Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11
DB #1 4/2002-8/2003
Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out
Living with OW