I guess now that I have my own thread I can post updates here!
I have narrowed down my "interview list" to three attnys that I will be meeting with during the month of Sept. I know exactly what kind of attny I want and I do need one that has a very proven track record of negotiating a new settlement from a separation to a divorce. For various reasons (and none due to his lack of skill) I have opted not to use the attny I have been with for 2 years.
I am sick at my very core that I have to endure this again but there is no way I am staying in this situation until 2013. My H could make this very simple but I got the word from him he likes how things are now and sees no reason to divorce. (why wouldn't he? he gets me as his W and "red" as his GF, not a bad gig if you can get it!)
He is also two payments behind on spousal maintenance - the first time he has EVER been late. So that is going to have to be addressed as well.
To the men here that actually follow through with court orders even if you feel they are unfair - you are good men. Having to beg my H for what the court has ordered him to give me is getting old.
He thinks this is unfair now... he certainly won't be pleased when I sue him again.
This BS has been going on since March 2, 2008 (well actually March 4th since March 2 was a Sat!).
I saw a moving truck on my street today and I just wanted to jump in it!
