I think that would be GREAT if his family went balistic over a little note. Nothing would happen to you, and it would show your H that they are seriously flawed. Again, he would wonder what kind of mistake he made--his W leaves a friendly note after ? how many months of no contact?? and his family has a huge reaction??
These little things DO make them think D4ML. And you can lead his thinking about you even now. Nothing over-the-top, just hey H, we're doing XYZ on this day--wonder if you'd like to join us.
No stalker is going to sound like that. And he won't respond. But he'll be thinking of you...
