What I would like is to completely separate and move forward.
Take the time to heal.
It is impossible to completly separate we have kids.
If she is actually seeing the other person I have no idea.
At one point I could have forgiven the unforgivable but now ... even more has gone on since the initial discovery of the affair and it came down to the untimatum of him or me.
She choose him. I am no ones second fidle.
We have been out of the same house for 2 months but I lived in the basement suite separate and appart for quiet a while. We even came up with a temperary custody arangement.
She is probably having regrets but I doubt she would ever admitt it and I am not going to ask.
