Feel free to yell at me for this, but I replied last night and this morning before I got on here and this is what I said:

Last night: IDK. Are you gonna do the work it would take? Are you gonna respect the boundaries I set? IDK if moving in here is the best idea right now - cause if it doesn't work out & you move out again it will be tragic for DD. Maybe you need a short term apartment or something.

He didn't reply. So I sent this: IDK why you didn't reply, that's your choice. I don't want to keep going on & on about this. If you want to try to make things right & work on the marriage like you claim you have wanted numerous times, then you know what you need to do...end it, move out, & have NO contact with her. Period. End of story.

No reply from him.

My ears are open, my mouth is shut and my hands are away from my phone. What's next?

Would I want to talk to him about moving back in with boundaries?

Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010