I am trying to, but again with all the crap she has dished out about my living sitch I have decided to wait until I am in my own place(which will be tomorrow) to get the kids with me more often. I think the way I handled it was the best. I basically stated I would take them like I normally do, and that I have others things to do and cannot accomadate her schedule when she needs it. She didnt think about the fact that when she books an appt. she makes around 30 dollars for that hour, but she has to pay around 12 for the kids to be watched. She has to deal with this, not me.