TimeHeals-He used to be Prince Charming now he is the frog lol.

Puppy Dog Tails-My 11 year old is a daughter.

gr8 day 2B alive-I heard as soon as he said yes he has a girlfriend and not a wife. I wanted to slap him in his face. The reason that I think he is so worried about the OW reaction to him cheating on her is because he lives with her. He knows that if she gets mad with him and put him out he has nowhere to go. I asked him why didn't he call OW and he said that she was at work. I can't lie by me not seeing him for 2 weeks I did want to see him and that is why I agreed to pick him up. I know that I have to have self respect for myself and his behavior is unacceptable. I thank you so much for your advice.

soleil-I have definitely wondered is this who my husband really is and it took him 12 years to show me this side of him. I am going to have to let him go because the heartache is not worth it. He is headed down a road of destruction and alot of STD's. I am staying off of that road. Thanks for your advice.


Me (32) H (36)
Together (12 years)
Married (3 years)
Children (4 ages 11,9,7,6)
Bomb dropped (November 09)
Seperated (January 29, 2010)