Thanks Trapt...I agree with you. I do think R talks are important in Piecing. But like you said, now isnt the time. I do know enough about my H that when he is ready to talk, he will. I find whenever I push talking, it ends with me saying "im sorry".
So, when he is ready, he knows Im here for him to talk to. I have let him know that. I just know he is working through things lately. He did talk to his therapist on Monday...he said it went good. Thats all he will ever say. I dont push.
Thank you for pulling for me. Patience is something thats seems to be my strength! Thank goodness for that!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10