they make and they can and will do things to push your buttons, they know you better than anyone right?
Ummm ... until you change and that doesn't work anymore. That is detaching. This codependency where you give somebody the power to control your actions and feelings all of the time is why they need to go and why you need to detach.
You both need to grow now, and you can't do that with your focus on each other, looking to the other for support when it just isn't there.
Take the focus off your spouse. Put it on yourself.
List 10 things--aside from your spouse/marriage for now--that you are grateful for in your past or present every day for the next 10 days. See what is good.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/01/1003:17 PM.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
