I have been living together/seperated since she filed. In different rooms and have seperate lives. I'm still a little behind W, but she has the advantage of working outside the home. I was stay at home dad. I guess I still am since I've not found a job yet and that make it really hard to GAL. I would say I have let go and still have moments but the extremes are nothing like they were. I plan to stay this way until the D is final unless she moves out. It is hard since you see every move they make and they can and will do things to push your buttons, they know you better than anyone right? Try to remember the "none of what you hear and 1/2 of what you see" when it comes to the WAS.
