Greek posted this back in March, "You can sit that man down and say, "I have decided that this arrangement is not what I want. I know you are having an A. You will either stop your A and come home to work on our M, or I will see my lawyer and divorce you." There are only two things to consider for him - restoring his M or you will end it. Period."

Now that was said before I found out H was actually living with OW, but I'm confused.

Last night H sent me this text, "You gonna let me move back in?"

Of course I want him out of OW's house, but is back in our house the best thing right now? Anything is better than him being in her house, but I'm afraid of him moving back in just to leave again if it doesn't work out.

Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010