DanF, I am so sorry that you had to physically separate, but it sounds like it was for the best. Sometimes I think it might be for the best in my sitch, too. I cannot afford to move out until I have child support, and I would have that until the D is final. Since neither of us is in any hurry to file, that could be a while.
Treading water is okay with me... as long as I can get through my days at work and it doesn't affect the kids. The problem is, I worry about the kids, S9 and D2. I wonder what this is doing to them and their perception of what a marriage should be. I would hate for my daughter to grow up thinking this is a normal relationship.
Me: 36 H: 36 S9 (from my previous marriage) D2 Bomb-date: 4/7/10 10/10 Giving it six months to see what happens
