We have been "separated," more or less, since April. In the early months, he waivered on whether or not he wanted to work things out with me, but he decided back in June that he doesn't want to work on the marriage right now -- he thinks we need to work on ourselves first (meaning me, really).
I have encouraged him to leave the house, to move in with his parents, but he refuses. He says his parents will only let him do it one time, and he wants to save it up like a piece of candy or something. Meanwhile, my feelings about him change from day to day, and I am not sure if I love him or just want to end it. If he was being a complete jerk, it would be so much easier.
Me: 36 H: 36 S9 (from my previous marriage) D2 Bomb-date: 4/7/10 10/10 Giving it six months to see what happens
