Have you considered joining a good men's group where you can learn over time how to become a tougher guy? A couple of friends of mine found this very helpful.
Yes, I sent an email out about 2 days ago to a group leader in my area.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch