Dental hygiene eh? Another woman with an oral fixation? Dental pro's are some effed up people I can tell you
Bobby, why do you need to do anything again? In my case, w left. I didn't ask for that. I didn't agree to that. She just did. Lawyer looked at me and told me that w will have to pay half the house pymnt. At some point I suppose when she finishes school (similarity?)
Wait on it. What's her hurry, Bobby? Ask yourself why she is in such a hurry. And ask yourself and your lawyer what you can do about that. But take a deep breath and go slowly. This is not what you wanted. This is what she wanted. Let her worry. Let her do the work. She thinks that getting rid of you will solve her issues? Ok. Life works like this though: you get rid of one issue, and you get others.
Let her deal with her issues Bobby. But don't take her issues on. Don't try to prevent her from feeling the impact of her choices. And don't try to protect her or feel sorry for her. It'll be ingratiating to her. Annoying. And she will try harder to hurt you. Time to stop that cycle Bobby. Now.
Look for a way to let her carry that burden. So at least she can feel like she accomplished something.
In like a lamb, Bobby.
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
