Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[TimeHeals]

This crap just keeps getting better and better guys.

Not the way the rest of us see it, John.

Buddy, you need to take a giant step back, I think.

Almost everybody comes here to save their marriages. Almost everybody here values marriage as an institution. The community here likes it when two people can rediscover a healthy marriage together. It's the thing people here like.

Those of us reading your posts have nothing to go on but what you post here, but it's anonymous, so if you aren't being perfectly honest with us, then that's your own fault.

Assuming that you are being honest with us, this is something a good counselor should be sharing with you: some marriages should NOT be saved.

Serial cheating, manipulation and control (forget your own issues, I am looking at where you say you wife is at based on what you say she is doing and saying). This is not remotely healthy, John.

The best thing that ever happened to you in this relationship was her leaving.

Now, you can take a long, hard look at John. What makes John really happy? You cannot even begin this process until you detach, however.

You haven't even begun to detach, John. Stop answering her calls, go see a lawyer, be strong for your son, and take care of yourself, buddy.