Some other things--he picked up S from school yesterday at 4, but it is getting later and later and I call and no one answers. So finally they show up around 5:15 and I say "Why didn't you answer the phone, why are you so late, and why don't you have dinner with you??" Usually if they get home later there is some communication about dinner, etc. and there was nothing.
Then I say--and why have you blocked me from texting?? And he is completely confused (he is totally phone illiterate.lol) and I show him what happens if I text him--I get this weird message about needing a 10 digit code and my message comes instantly back. He is very subdued and "I wouldn't do that" and I have him text me some gibberish (he can't figure this out--he barely types) and it goes right through. So then I reply to HIS text and it goes through. He is apologizing about not having his phone on him, and didn't think about dinner, etc.
So I tell him, right, S is going to start his HWork and YOU are going to go pick us up a pizza. Which he promptly aggrees to and I send him on his way. lol. While he is out I text "Thanks". And when he got home I ask if he got a text and he says" yes, I did and I read it and you're welcome".lol.
OK, total 180 here. This guy just never, ever does this kind of stuff.
Why do I have to figure out NOW that I have so much more power than I realized?? Better late than never I guess....
And the "bitchier" I am the better??? This is just N.U.T.S.!
So this a.m. H is up early again--when he is stressed he can't sleep. And I check the history and he has read an article this a.m. about the 5 home repairs you DON'T put off.
And number 3 is MOLD!!! And how bad it is!!! Wear a mask, etc!
This has me completely freaked out! I have GOT to do something about this!!!
I have EVERYONE telling me to just get it done. One of the things H said was "spray the tile" (meaning don't replace it but just spray to change color). That costs SOME kind of money and I can come up with the rest. I don't care--I'll get HIS family in on it!! I could ask them to contribute to S's replace tile fund or something. This is SUPER UNHEALTHY!!
