I am sorry man. I know your hurting really bad. Really bad. I know your angry. First off, you are projecting the future because you are scared. I sometimes still do the same thing. Here is the thing Bobby...right now...you really need to sit back and STFU..sit back and give her the freedom to make here choices. Is this wrong? Yes. Does this suck? Yes. Is there anything YOU can do about HER choices - NO.
Your probably feeling defeated right now. Do you know what...YOUR NOT.
You are concerned about financial support? I get it buddy..trust me I get it...I live it every day. Let me ask you a question.
What does worry about all of this get you? NOTHING.
You feel like you have no control over this and to some extent you do not. You do have control over YOU.
Right Bobby - as seeking has pointed out you need to let her go. I'll say it my way...you need to say...."f*ck her" for now. Some people misinterpret when I say this. I am not saying "go screw her, stop loving her, go file" - No I am saying to YOU Bobby that right now you need to step back and think of Bobby for a bit.
Do me a favor...nothing is going to happen today..you are not going to get her to change her mind today. The courts are not going to order anything today.. so here would be my advice...
Bobby, today...sit back and just try and relax. Today, just sit still, the weather in your neck of the woods should be nice today. Go for a walk, enjoy nature, just relax.
God bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
