I tried to instal eblaster last night when i thought for sure he wouldn't come home. He did. He caught me' on his computer but doesn't know what i was doing. Now he's going to be taking his computer with him everywhere. He does not talk to her on the phone so voice recording is out. He has already started looking for an apartment. 

I had a moment of weakness and asked him about child support. It blew up into a big fight (on his part) because earlier in the night he asked me what was wrong then got mad when I wouldn't talk to him about it. He said I'm being spiteful by being 'secretive'. I was calm and unemotional as he yelled and called me unstable and but i said 'i will only talk to you if we can discuss this rationall and logically'. 

He said he was but then said what I was asking for was only because I was hurt and spiteful.  I'm pretty sure he has talked to a lawyer but if not he's using that to intimidate me more into thinking I won't get what im asking for. I will obviously be callig my lawyer again today. He's threatening to go for joint custody to avoid paying CS so that I don't 'blow it on stupid stuff'. 

I don't know. I'm trying to do this right but I did want to try to figure out my finances before I left. I know I shouldn't have asked but I didn't expect that reaction just because I wouldn't talk to him about my feelings. He took that as me trying to be mean but it's me trying to protect myself. All of it is. 

Last edited by Ihavehope; 09/01/10 11:11 AM.
Me 30 H 29
DC 9, 7, 2
M 4 years, T 6 years
ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10
He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too
Physically separating end of September