Thanks H147 Hang in there other people have turned things around even with a OM/OW in the picture, Sandi is right you do really have to let go, I went NC for six weeks with my H and as horrid as it sounds it took him that long to even remotely miss me!
Just remember that a needy, missing you, pursing OH is about as attractive as a soggy lettace leaf, one that is out and about, enjoying life looking good, looks more like it needs to be put in a salad and enjoyed lol!
The bonus is if W doesnt get the message some other lovely lady will do and as much as it hurts to move on well some times its just the best thing
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!