I needed this time to get strong and to understand MLC so that I can face whatever questions or comments I may hear!
Wow, good point! How would you have responded before? Good thing you feel stronger to face the questions. I have said "I am not ready to talk about it" at least 4 times this week. But I said it in a nice way and I think the people felt guilty for asking! But maybe in your case, since they see your H is with OW, you will not have as many questions...what do you think they will ask?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004