P.S. Timeheals. WOW- I can't believe you were paralyzed for 2 months. I am sure your whole perspective on life must be permanently altered from that experience!
Don't worry- I do not believe in being the victim or staying stuck in a poor me role without changing things. I think it is ok to vent sometimes though and admit "this sucks! Life is hard!" but then reboot and face the next day with a more positive outloook.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004