YES!!! Way to go. Now both our H's know the door is open, they just have to have the will to walk through. If your H is like mine, it'll be a day or two before you get an answer. And stand back if the OW gets wind of it.
Punkin, If my response had PO'd my H he would have responded right away. At least that's the way he has been.
A very wise DBer told me H might go quiet on me for a while after he got my email. That's fine with me. I do much better when I don't have contact with H. It helps hone my detaching skills which still need some work.
I'm mind reading here but he's probably thinking I'm a nasty, selfish beeotch because all he was trying to do was be nice and help out and his mean old W set a boundary. No wonder I left her.
SA - Just catching up on your tread. Sending that email to your H is something that I see myself doing. You've set a boundary....it needed to be done. Doesn't it feel good not to be afraid that you may upset him? Good for you.
(((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
