I don't know- he seemed angry today as he will have to pay me more a month due to the med insurance snafu.
Maybe H got scared as we seemed to be getting a bit closer and getting along well. H talked alot-mentioned that " a few days of getting along well won't last and doesn't mean we should stay together and try again". I never brought it up. H said he is adamant we cannot stay married, but that he knows I think the M could be saved. My position all along was old M dead. All I ever advocated after bomb was dropped was trying to build a new M.
H putting the wedding picture away today was very telling.I think he was getting scared he wouldn't go through with leg sep or D. Mind reading, I know.
H very angry, told me I never appreciated the fact he put me through school, that I always took credit for everything I have, than he gave me advantages I never had before, etc. I don't understand the "attack".
The cat is going to stay away from the prey.
Hang in there~
Did you just listen or say anything to him? Did you validate him and his feelings?
Here is the perfect opportunity for you to "tease" him. Get dressed up and go out and make sure he sees it. Show him that you are moving on with or without him.
You know him best, but at the same time you don't. Most of it is mind reading. However, one thing that pops out to me is he doesn't think the changes, whatever is working, will stick. SHOW him you mean business, don't tell him.
