Thank you Susan! I'm trying to just do 180's, GAL, and all that. In my gut I think he still cares very much for me, but is caught up in all of this. I knew H well enough to know when he just wanted it to be over and when there would've still been hope. But I said the other day, after finding his lies, that I can't trust or believe him anymore, he's not the same man that left a year ago.

We are an amazing bunch! I never thought I could find a group that was this great and informative.

You are in my thoughts too, thank you

Me: 24
H: 26
2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3
H filed D papers: 8/2/10
OW discovered: 08/10
D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10
There is no method to my madness