I am sorry to hear how things turned out for you. It sounds like you are doing pretty well in spite of H's lies and the distance, OW and new medical problems H has. Sounds like H is certainly going through some sort of life crisis. Freezing you and D out of his life as he did is erratic behavior. You mention PTSD. That could be causing H's odd behavior. I knew someone (actually the person worked for me) who suffered from PTSD. Fear and nothing but fear, he made irrational decisions.I hope your H gets some help, he will need alot of it.
You have alot on your plate, my friend.I am always so proud of how people on these posts hang in and hang on. We are a pretty amazing bunch!
You take care of yourself and your D.Do things for the two of you.
